Dear Brothers & Sisters By: Puck Arks
Dear Brothers & Sisters
Written By: Puck Arks of TFD
My dear brothers and sisters—yes, we are all brothers and sisters, I have love in my heart for all people, while we may disagree, but even more so may we agree that some people cross the line, more often than not, or even rarely because in truth we all do it.
My friends, Collectively speaking, conflict is not necessarily bad or destructive.
Even when conflict causes a great deal of stress or frfrustration we must remember why we are here.
Sometimes we disturb the peace by trying to defend ourselves or prove a point.
It helps to remember that someone else's perception has no real power over who we are, so there is no actual threat.
When others hold strong opinions, you still can hold your own without disturbing the balance.
We need to seek common ground rather than notice our differences. See things from another perspective so that you can understand that person within his own context.
Instead of attacking others or defending yourself, listen carefully to others so that they do not feel defensive or have any need to attack.
Notice what needs can be met for all parties so everyone feels more at peace.
Being at peace and creating peace means actively making an effort to meet the needs of others, including making sure their voices are heard, and their opinions respected.
Making peace means seeing the other person where they are in their own context and being aware of their potential, even when their experiences are very different from yours.
Making peace means letting go of defensiveness and resentment, instead finding a way to contribute to the life of another.
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